If he's not dead, he's stupid.
Pep Talk: You met a great guy. You really hit it off. Things were progressing beautifully. Then suddenly he's gone. Plans- cancelled! Texts- ignored! Maybe he's really busy... but no, he just updated his facebook. Ok, well, let's stay calm and look at what matters. At this point, it really doesn't matter what he's feeling/thinking when you're feeling blue. He doesn't have what it takes to date you. He may be a wonderful guy, but he's not giving you what you need. You deserve to be a priority. You are a fucking amazing catch and I feel bad for this guy that he's missing it.
Today remind yourself: If (s)he's not dead, (s)he's stupid.
for realz.
Jun 25th